Details / F.A.Q.
Where is the RSVP?
Respond to the RSVP here: RSVP Form
Where and when?
The accommodations, ceremony, and activities are all at Deloro Valley near Tuolumne, CA.
Deloro Valley 17301 Silver Spur Tuolumne, CA 95379
We will be there from Thursday (July 16) at 3pm to Sunday (July 19) 11am.
We would love it if you stayed with us for the whole weekend! But if you prefer to stay fewer nights, or just attend the ceremony on Saturday that's fine too.
How will accommodations work?
There are on-venue accommodations. There should be enough space for everyone! Our dream is to bring our friends, families, and communities together for a weekend of celebration and fun, so we HIGHLY encourage everyone to stay on property if possible!
Book rooms here: Book Your Stay
The hotels in Sonora, CA are about a 17 min drive from the property if you prefer to stay elsewhere.
Is there a map of the venue?
What time is the ceremony and other events?
See the Schedule page for event details.
Are kids welcome?
Kids are welcome! Dogs, unfortunately, are not allowed at Deloro Valley. Woof.
Is there childcare?
We are currently working on on-site childcare options we hope to offer. More details to follow!
What will the weather be like?
It will be hot! Plan for a weekend of shorts and bathing suits and hats.
Bring sunscreen! And other hot weather gear: sun umbrellas, wide brimmed hats, cooling towels, etc.
What should I wear?
For most of the weekend, you should be wearing whatever is comfortable!
For the ceremony, think something like "Hawaiian Beach Wedding" level of formality. Think light, flowy, and comfortable shirts and dresses. For instance, Hawaiian shirts or summer dresses—whatever will let you look good in hot weather!
What kind of shoes should/shouldn't I wear?
For the ceremony heels are discouraged—depending on where you're staying on the property there may be uneven terrain. We recommend comfortable flats, sandals, or wedges.
Food?
We'll be providing meals all weekend from Thursday Dinner to Sunday breakfast. The reception is on us—of course—but if you are attending other meals this weekend and are able to, we hope you'll consider contributing $10-30 per meal. But only if you're eating and can afford it!
Don't worry though, if you attend you will be fed!
Please note there is no refrigeration or kitchen access available on the property!
Drinks / BYOB?
You can and should bring your own drinks! We will be providing some drinks during the weekend, but you should mostly think of this as a BYOB weekend. Bring your favorite drinks! And remember to bring a cooler to keep them in!
Can I buy ice on-site / Should I bring a cooler?
Bring a cooler! There are no refrigerators in your rooms!
Ice is $3 for a 10 lb bag and is available in both the upper and lower areas of Deloro. (Exact location T.B.D.)
What about Wi-Fi and cell service?
Wi-Fi is available and works best in the main lodge. The signal is weaker at the cabins, and it may slow down when many guests are online at once. If you need a reliable connection for work or anything else, there's a Starbucks about 15 minutes away in Sonora.
Cell service is generally good throughout the property, and like the Wi-Fi, it's strongest at the lodge.
Activities?
We will have fun activities all weekend long—think pool parties, zip lines, yoga, dance parties, sauna-ing, and so forth.